Just Because You Don’t Know Who’s in That Old Photo Doesn’t Mean You WON’T KNOW!
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(ChatGPT took some poetic license on the group photo; see original below)
It’s the last week of October, and Family History Month is coming to a close. I’ve been thinking about something that has become a much bigger part of my genealogy journey over the years: old family photographs.
My passion hasn’t always been about photographs. Genealogy has always been my first love. I love the research, the detective work, the unexpected discoveries, and those wonderful moments when another piece of the family history puzzle falls into place.
But somewhere along the way, photographs became an ever-bigger part of what I do.
And I think I know why.
Because somehow, when you become the keeper of the family history, you also become the keeper of the family photographs!
Does that sound familiar?
You start researching the family tree, and before you know it, someone hands you an old album. Then comes a shoebox of photographs. Perhaps an envelope filled with pictures that nobody has looked at in decades.
And eventually, someone says those familiar words: “Here, you should have these. You’re the one doing the family history.”
Suddenly, you’re not just collecting names, dates, and places. You’re collecting faces, memories, and mysteries.
And some of those mysteries can be pretty interesting!
Just Because You Don’t Know Today Doesn’t Mean You WON’T KNOW!
I think one of the biggest mistakes we can make with old photographs is assuming that if we don’t know who’s in a picture today, we’ll never know. I’ve even heard people say I just threw those photos away (gasp).
But here’s what I want you to remember:
JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T KNOW TODAY DOESN’T MEAN YOU WON’T KNOW TOMORROW!
Think about how genealogy has changed over the years. We have access to digitized newspapers, historical records, online family trees, DNA matches, and now facial recognition technology.
A photograph that was a complete mystery ten, twenty, or even forty years ago might hold enough clues today to help us discover something new.
Sometimes the answer isn’t even in the photograph itself. It might be on the back, in the background, in another family member’s collection, or in a newspaper article you haven’t found yet.
And sometimes, all it takes is looking at that photograph again with fresh eyes.
Let me tell you about one of my own mystery photographs and how, after approximately forty-plus years, its story finally started to unfold.
The Story of Howard Whiteley — A Photograph Comes Full Circle
I had an old photograph from my grandmother’s collection. It showed a man standing on a porch, holding what looked like a baby girl, with a little boy standing nearby.
The house number on the wall was 4409.
And on the back of the photograph, someone had written:
“This was Taken on April 23. These are my pride and joy”
That was it.
No names. No year. No explanation of who these people were or how they connected to my family.
For years, it was simply one of those mystery photographs in my collection.
But I’d scanned it and safely stored it in my FOREVER account, along with so many of my other family photographs. (I have an album called “Mystery Photos”.)
A Little Help From Facial Recognition
As you may know, I use FOREVER to store and organize my photographs, and one of the features I love is facial recognition.
FOREVER had scanned the faces throughout my photo collection and grouped together faces it thought might belong to the same person.
One day, while looking through those faces, I came across the man from the porch photograph.
I remember thinking, Well, I don’t know who this guy is, but I’ll click on him anyway.
And lo and behold!
FOREVER showed me two photographs.
One was my mystery porch photograph. But the second was a large family portrait!
And I recognized that family. It was the Hall family. My mom’s aunt and uncle’s family.
Now, I had somewhere to start.
Sometimes You Just Have to Ask!
I knew my second cousin’s wife was on Facebook, so I reached out.
I sent her the family portrait and asked if she knew who the man in the photograph was. I also sent along my mystery porch photograph.
And she replied!
“Oh, that’s Howard. I don’t remember his last name, but he was married to Beatrice.”
Well, suddenly I had something! Beatrice was in my tree.
After all those years of wondering who this man was, I finally had a name and a family connection.
Howard Whiteley!
Think about that for a moment. A photograph I’d had for over forty years, with no idea who the people were, had finally started to reveal its story.
And all because I clicked on a face I didn’t recognize.
But Wait, There’s More!
Of course, being a genealogist, I couldn’t just stop there.
Now that I knew it was Howard, I wanted to know about the children. My research showed that Howard and Beatrice had three children: two girls and a boy. But which little girl was he holding? And what was the little boy standing beside him named?
By comparing what I knew about their ages and birth order, I could figure out which children they were likely in the picture.
But you know how genealogy works.
One question leads to another, and before you know it, you’re down another rabbit hole!
I started looking for more information about each of Howard and Beatrice’s children.
While researching the older sister of the little girl in the photograph, I came across a newspaper article about her wedding.
I love old wedding announcements. They often include wonderful details about families, relationships, and where people lived.
And this particular article had something that tied everything together.
It mentioned that Howard and Beatrice Whiteley lived at 4409 10th Avenue, Albuquerque, New Mexico.
Wait a minute!
4409!
That was the number on the wall in my mystery photograph!
There it was. A detail that had been staring at me from that photograph for decades.
Suddenly, the newspaper article had brought me right back to the porch where my investigation began.
Full Circle — After Forty Years
I can’t tell you how satisfying that discovery was. I started with a photograph of three unidentified people on a porch. Facial recognition led me to another family photograph. That family photograph led me to a relative who recognized the man.
That identification led me back into my genealogy research.
And my research led me to a newspaper article that connected the family to the address visible in the original photograph.
Full circle!
And here’s what I want you to take away from this story.
If I’d decided years ago that I’d never know who was in that photograph, I might never have looked at it again or even thrown it away as some people do.
If I hadn’t scanned and preserved it, I might not have had it available for facial recognition.
If I hadn’t clicked on that unfamiliar face, I might never have connected it to the Hall family.
And if I hadn’t continued researching, I might never have found that newspaper article.
Each little clue mattered. Sometimes they are like breadcrumbs.
Facial recognition started the investigation, but technology, family knowledge, and traditional genealogy research helped me put the pieces together.
Just because I didn’t know who was in that photograph forty years ago didn’t mean I WOULDN’T KNOW someday.
And that’s exactly why I never give up on an old mystery photograph.
I Have Another Mystery — Let’s Have Some Fun You Could Help Me!
Speaking of mysteries, I have another old photograph I’m going to work on.
Only a few clues are written on the back.
Not enough to tell me the whole story, but perhaps enough to get us started.
And I thought, why not invite you along for the investigation?
I’m going to share both the front and back of this photograph, and I’d love to hear what you notice.
This photo is from my grandmother’s collection. I’ve already started researching a few of the clues on the back. Maybe you’ll spot something I’ve missed. Perhaps you’ll recognize a detail in the clothing, the setting, or the writing. Or maybe you’ll suggest where I should look next.
That’s one of the things I enjoy most about the genealogy community. We all bring different experiences, knowledge, and research skills to the table.
Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes can make all the difference.
So here’s my challenge to you: Look at my mystery photograph and tell me what you see.
No clue is too small, and no suggestion is too simple. Of course, we’ll need to investigate any ideas before drawing conclusions, but that’s part of the fun!
And who knows? Perhaps together we’ll solve another mystery.
What About Your Mystery Photographs?
As we wrap up Family History Month, I’d like you to think about the photographs in your own collection.
Do you have a photograph of someone you can’t identify?
Perhaps you’ve had it for years. Maybe you inherited it from a parent or grandparent, and nobody ever told you who was in it.
Please don’t throw them away simply because you don’t know.
Scan it. Preserve any writing on the back. Record where it came from and who gave it to you. Look for clues, compare it with other family photographs, and revisit it from time to time. Put them in an album called mystery photos.
And don’t forget to share it with relatives. Someone else might have the same photograph with a name written on the back!
Today’s tools are incredible, and who knows what new tools we’ll have five or ten years from now?
That unidentified photograph might be someone you’ve been researching for years.
Or it might lead you to a family story you never knew existed.
One Last Thought Before Family History Month Ends
When I started researching my family history, I never imagined that photographs would become such a big part of my journey.
Now I realize they go hand in hand.
The records tell us when our ancestors were born, where they lived, whom they married, and when they died.
Photographs can help us imagine the people behind those records. They give faces to names and sometimes offer clues that written records don’t.
As the keeper of the family history, I feel responsible for preserving both.
So, as October comes to an end, I have one final Family History Month challenge for you.
Find one mystery photograph in your collection.
Turn it over. Look at every detail. Write down what you know and what you’d like to discover.
And then put it somewhere safe, because just because you don’t know who that person is today…
DOESN’T MEAN YOU WON’T KNOW TOMORROW!
Happy hunting!
Ellen
The Family History Hound
P.S. I have a YouTube video showing how you can use Ancestry’s power to maybe get lucky on a mystery face in your photos. Check it out. The Hidden Tool on Ancestry You Should Be Using: Recognize Ancestors
I also have a photo-organizing course on the Family History Hound Dog Park called Becoming a Photo Organizing Hero.
